Every couple needs to experiment and try things in the bedroom to keep the flame burning.
Couples are always seeking new, naughty ways to have fun in the bedroom, especially when they have been together for a while. It happens to the best of relationships. Love kindles like a wildfire… then simmers down to a slow glow.
It’s natural to seek a little inspiration when things in the bedroom have become routine. You may find the thrill of having sex is not the same. The flame is not burning as brightly as it once was.
It is normal to try new things in bed. Spice up your bedroom affairs by trying new wild and dirty things that can be a life-changing opportunity for couples.
Here are some pointers to try out, which will take your sex life to the next level.
1. Try Sex Out Of Bed
Most couples only have sex in the bedroom except, sex is not restricted to the bedroom. Try sex anywhere as long as it is convenient. The urgency of having sex can bring a thrill to a person. However, having to wait until you get to the bedroom can make the fun disappear. For a change, why not try sex in the nearest place that is convenient for both of you.
2. Keep The Lights On
3. Try A Scarf For Bondage
4. Couples Should Share Fantasies
Everybody has a sexual fantasy, yes everyone! Sharing your fantasies is simply the beginning. An open-minded partner will not judge you.To begin with it is sharing things that turn you on. It does not mean you have to try them but to get things started, verbally share them to see if you’re both on the same page.
The reality is most couples do not open up about their fantasies. They fear that their partners will judge them. It leads to boring bedtime. It’s possible the same fantasy turn you both on.. regardless of what it is. It’s possible, their fantasy is naughtier than yours! Keep fantasies in the bedroom. Talk about them, share them, play them but keep them private.
5. Dirty Talk Among Couples
6. Have Rough Sex
Soft and tender sex can become boring. There is nothing wrong with indulging in a little rough sex. Rough sex needs couples to agree how far it should go. Some couples will be fine with being kissed on the lips roughly; others will not mind having it all rough, and then some more. Rough sex needs to escalate slowly to build the sexual energy. Rough sex can include verbal encouragement by both partners.. Yes, harder! You like that, don’t you? Tell me you want more? Louder!
7. Accepting All Of Him
This goes to all girlfriends who are in a romantic relationship. A man gets wild if he knows that you will swallow his cum, better still, he will get excited if you let your him do it on your chest or face. This can make intimacy be messy but freaky wild. Make his dream come true. Spice things up no matter how messy they are.
8. Touch Yourself
If you have the courage to get naughty in front of your partner, then you should do it. Visual stimulation in men does wonders. A man loves when a woman is bold and courageous. When you do it in front of him, this is a sign of trust. You can make him go crazy especially if you do not let him touch you. Getting naughty in front of your partner can be dirty and fun. The after results will be more satisfying.
9. Dress In A New Sexy Outfit
Men are easily excited by sexy lingerie. You will be surprised to see your man excited when he sees you in a sexy outfit. Wearing a sexy outfit can be a good foreplay for couples. A man can also dress up. Good fitting underwear will look appealing to a girlfriend instead of loose underwear.
10. Use A Massage
Applying a massage is relaxing but also very sensual. Casually offering your spouse a massage is the perfect start. It works both ways and is the perfect foreplay to get things going. A head, shoulders or full body massage. Cream, oils, candles and scents all set the mood.
11. Take Control
Learn to take control in the bedroom.. both of you. Both men and women can lead in the bedroom. Hearing what your partner wants and how to do it is a huge turn-on. Take charge and ride your spouse wild. Take charge in the bedroom can be dirty, wild, and fun.
12. Try New Sex Positions
Surprise your partner with a new sex position takes away the routine. Some sex styles will allow you do it, while others may not. It is up to both of you to figure out which sex style works best for you. You can take charge or let your partner take control of the position.
13. Eat Off The Ice Cream
Keep in mind it’s meant to be fun.. its a great starter and can lead to great sex. Spread ice cream, cream or chocolate sauce on your partner’s body and lick it off.
14. Let Him Feel Your Curves
You should let your partner feel your curves. This is an important part of foreplay since it gives a man a sense of ownership. It can be wild and fun to let your man feel you. This increases sexual energy to both of you. The moans will make your man want you more.
15. Seduce Your Partner
Get the party started by dropping hints, mentioning a fantasy, talking about something you know they like will get the ball rolling. Gauging by your partners reaction is what happens next. It does not have to be at home, try beginning the seduction when you’re out, like at dinner or in a bar.
Communicaton is the key to bring you two closer. Let your spouse tell you all about his or her work frustrations. Ensure you pay close attention to all the details. Allow your partner to open up and be emotional without judging. This will create an emotional bond between you two and it will make you feel closer to each other.
17. Use Some Playmates
The use of toys in the bedroom is a great idea for spicing things up during sex. There are many excellent sex toys for both him and her. They can be used together or seperately. One partner can watch while the other plays with a toy. Men are great watchers (visual) and love watching their partner pleasure themself. Don’t be surprised when your partner goes wild.
18. Role Play
Role play is basically a holiday from your everyday lives without having to go anywhere. It can be an opportunity to re-write your own sexual history, enact a long-held fantasy, or simply be sexual in a way that is distinctly different from your typical persona. If you can get over an expected bit of initial awkwardness, role playing might just lead to the best sex you’ve ever had.
The role play plots are endless
19. Use Sneaky Attacks
Used carefully, ambushing your partner to have sex unexpectedly can be wild and fun. Gauging your partners reaction is paramount in case they aren’t it. Keep it spontaneous and enjoy sex whenever it is convenient.
It’s the hottest, most intimate thing you can do with your partner—without actually touching each other.
Mutual masturbation puts two people having “solo” sex in the same room. It means touching yourself in a pleasurable way while your partner touches themselves in a pleasurable way. Mutual masturbation actually has two definitions: masturbating yourselves together or having hand sex with one another watching.
and whatever you do…